Conflict Management

All couples experience conflict, but you can learn how manage conflict and form compromises in a healthy, productive way.

Stonewalling vs The Silent Treatment: Are They The Same?

Kari Rusnak

What’s the difference between stonewalling and the silent treatment?

Help! Someone Told Me I’m Stonewalling

Laura Silverstein

Stonewalling is dramatically misunderstood. It is not the icy indifference that it might appear to be on the surface.

Managing Conflict in Blended Families

Terry Gaspard

By compromising with your loved ones, you’re more likely to find a win-win solution.

How New Parents Can Reduce their Risk of Perinatal Mood & Anxiety Disorders

Lara Elfstrand

The Bringing Baby Home Workshop prepares new parents for their exciting adventure.

Dating Anxiety: How to Move Forward

Anna Aslanian

Have you experienced dating anxiety? You're not alone.

The Edge of Hope: Lessons on Regret for a Marriage in Crisis

Kerry Lusignan

No crystal ball can guide us when we sit on hope's edge, contemplating our marriage’s fate. But the research on regret affords us a compass.

The Right Fit: Exploring Different Styles of Couples Counseling

Vagdevi Meunier

The counseling format you choose will depend on your circumstances and relationship needs.

‘Courtroom Brain’: Is Your Partner on Trial?

Ken Fremont-Smith

Don't let resentment turn your partner into the defendant in your relationship

Can a Relationship Have Too Much Negativity?

The Gottman Institute

Learn the perfect ratio of positive to negative in your interactions as a couple

Self-Soothing Tips for High Conflict Couples

Brittini Carter

If your arguments feel out of control, you need to step away and bring yourself back to a calm state.

How to Deal With Passive-Aggressive Behavior in Your Relationship

Laura Silverstein

Whether it's a backhanded compliment or a subtle eye-roll, learn how to identify passive aggression and what to do about it.

The Mutual Benefits of Accepting Influence in Relationships

Nicole Schiener

From power struggles to shared power and values

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